Ring The Bell

This world doesn't change after differentiating good or bad. There are still the sub categories. In broader sense the good people can be divided in two groups further. Most of the good people belong to ‘Change Seekers’, who go to India gate to protest, to light candles; who burn off their frustration on social websites; or some join campaigns by going one step ahead. The second sub category plays the major role and that belongs to those people who make the changes happen. These people are few in millions, hard to highlight. But I appreciate some campaigns like Ring the bell, MARD, Indi Change, Bell bajao and few more. What I wish is that these campaigns should not be stopped after a while. The first mentioned campaign by breakthrough is donating some money to the villages in Bihar for this blog post, hence feel good while reading this.

Everyone has noticed that some monsters are again and again showing their heads in little course of time. It is not like the pillars of humanity fell in December and suddenly some found evil in them. Such things are happening from Stone Age. Even our mythology can’t deny it.  So it can be kidnapping of Sita or shameful behavior of Kauravas with Draupadi. It is a fact that some men are going crazy. Hence the need of the hour is to find some solutions to bring violence against women to a halt. Obviously I am not interested in designing cloths for women which cover head to toe. We have to brainstorm and find some practical solutions here.

The major loss I found from the back to back incidents of violence is the campaigns about saving the girl children totally stopped. People either lacked their interest or scared. First of all we have to restart these campaigns in full swing. It is a long term solution though. Let every boy in India have a sister. Let them respect and love the women from childhood. The second thing is that we should keep our next generation away from any coward incident which can leave strains on their minds. It can be small fights, but don’t display them. Better solution is not to have any fights. Here my point is children grow mostly like their parents, friends, teachers and role models. They will act like you. If you check the records of the parents of accused in recent incidents, you will find some flaws. These devils are burning Lanka with the sparks created in their surroundings. I won’t stop saying that education is the only way to bury the evil in us.

I had some long term solutions above. We have to think now to save our generation. Almost everyone is demanding for the stricter laws as correct they are. But it won’t be enough though. The mental state of the accused was not normal while playing the coward act. Stricter laws will scare them. But they will find their ways as always. I can see some ways, feeling speechless though. When you don’t have a control on one side then you have to take care of the other. Until the police, stricter laws and the above mentioned campaigns take time to hunt down the cowards, I have a message for women and that is ‘Be Strong’. Learn the self defense.The flaws start with the solution. One girl cannot tackle with the higher number. So try to stay in groups, have some trustworthy friends around with you. All my opinions or yours stop at one point when it comes to not yet women, extremely young girl children. Those incidents kill our thinking system. Here I will only request all the mothers not to leave their daughters with ANYONE until they are ready with the self defense.

So my friends, I won’t stop to think about this and expect the same from you. There are many good things to do in life than just to vote good answers on Quora. You better find your own answers and can write them in the comments below. We can have a good discussion. Or you can visit www.bellbajao.org and can go real.

It doesn't matter whether you are a male or a female, be a MARD!